The Best Dowry (Part Thirteen)
- The Husband Becoming Angry over Something
It is possible that the husband’s anger is on account of something which the wife does not consider to be necessary. It is furthermore possible that it is something necessary. So, in this case too, you should bear with utmost tolerance and dignity, to the extent that, leave alone your tongue, you should not even indicate or leave the impression that his anger was misplaced.
Your tolerance will eventually alert him that such anger is uncalled for. The results of this will be very good and it will produce abundant kindness towards you. Such an approach turns an enemy even into a friend. So, why should it not have a salutary effect on the husband?!
But do bear in mind that you should not sulk in this tolerance. In fact, you should remain cheerful, and in your actions and motions you should not at all display displeasure.
(Behtereen Jahez – To be continued, Insha Allah)